Dream meaning
Being smothered or unable to breathe
The short answer
Dreaming that you can't breathe, or that something is smothering you, usually reflects feeling overwhelmed, pressured or crowded in waking life. It can also have a physical source, such as a blocked nose, sleep apnoea or pressure on the chest during sleep paralysis.
24.2% of people in the study had had this dream. No. 29 of the 55 typical dreams · Nielsen et al., 2003
What does a dream about “Being smothered or unable to breathe” mean?
What psychologists say
Breathing difficulty in dreams can come from the body: sleep apnoea, allergies or congestion. If you snore heavily, wake gasping or feel exhausted during the day, see a doctor. Emotionally, the continuity hypothesis links smothering dreams to situations or relationships that leave you no room.
Denis et al., 2018; Schredl & Hofmann, 2003
The Jungian reading
A Jungian reading asks what is taking your air: a person, a role, an expectation. Smothering can also be an image of a devouring mother archetype, care that has become control.
Jung, 1964
In history and folklore
Old night-visitor legends describe a weight sitting on the chest and stealing breath, the origin of the English word nightmare, from the mare, a spirit that pressed on sleepers.
Hufford, 1982
How common is this dream?
24.2% of people in the study had had this dream. From a survey of 1,181 first-year university students in three Canadian cities. No. 29 of the 55 typical dreams.
Common versions of this dream
What if I'm drowning?
Drowning combines water and breathlessness: overwhelming emotion.
What if someone is holding me down?
Being held down points to someone or something limiting you.
What if I wake up gasping?
Repeated waking with breathlessness deserves a medical check for sleep apnoea.
Dreams that often come with it
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Sources
- Nielsen, T. A., Zadra, A. L., Simard, V., Saucier, S., Stenstrom, P., Smith, C., & Kuiken, D. (2003). The typical dreams of Canadian university students. Dreaming, 13(4), 211–235. doi:10.1023/B:DREM.0000003144.40929.0b
- Denis, D., French, C. C., & Gregory, A. M. (2018). A systematic review of variables associated with sleep paralysis. Sleep Medicine Reviews, 38, 141–157. doi:10.1016/j.smrv.2017.05.005
- Schredl, M., & Hofmann, F. (2003). Continuity between waking activities and dream activities. Consciousness and Cognition, 12(2), 298–308. doi:10.1016/S1053-8100(02)00072-7
- Jung, C. G. (Ed.) (1964). Man and His Symbols. Aldus Books.
- Hufford, D. J. (1982). The Terror That Comes in the Night: An Experience-Centered Study of Supernatural Assault Traditions. University of Pennsylvania Press.