Dream meaning
Being attacked
The short answer
Dreams of being physically attacked are frightening but common, and they usually reflect feeling threatened, criticised or overpowered in waking life. They tend to rise during conflict, after stressful news or when you feel you can't defend your boundaries.
42.4% of people in the study had had this dream. No. 12 of the 55 typical dreams · Nielsen et al., 2003
What does a dream about “Being attacked” mean?
What psychologists say
Researchers see attack dreams as part of the brain's threat rehearsal: the threat simulation theory holds that dreams stage dangers so we practise responses. Nightmare research adds that intense fear in dreams is linked to stress and past adversity. If attack dreams follow a real assault or trauma and keep returning, they can be part of post-traumatic stress, and professional support helps.
Revonsuo, 2000; Nielsen & Levin, 2007
The Jungian reading
A Jungian reading asks who the attacker is. An unknown assailant can be the shadow, a rejected part of yourself turned hostile. Fighting back, fleeing or freezing in the dream may show how you usually meet conflict when awake.
Jung, 1964
In history and folklore
Folk dream books generally read being attacked as a warning of quarrels or hidden opposition, and advised caution with people who seem friendly. Fighting back and winning was read as overcoming the trouble.
How common is this dream?
42.4% of people in the study had had this dream. From a survey of 1,181 first-year university students in three Canadian cities. No. 12 of the 55 typical dreams.
Common versions of this dream
What if I know the attacker?
A familiar attacker often points to tension with that person or with what they represent to you, not a literal danger.
What if I can't fight back?
Weak punches and frozen limbs are typical of REM sleep. Emotionally they match feeling powerless in a situation.
What if these dreams come after something that really happened?
Then they may be part of processing trauma. If they are frequent or disturbing, a doctor or therapist can help, and treatments for nightmares work well.
Dreams that often come with it
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Sources
- Nielsen, T. A., Zadra, A. L., Simard, V., Saucier, S., Stenstrom, P., Smith, C., & Kuiken, D. (2003). The typical dreams of Canadian university students. Dreaming, 13(4), 211–235. doi:10.1023/B:DREM.0000003144.40929.0b
- Revonsuo, A. (2000). The reinterpretation of dreams: An evolutionary hypothesis of the function of dreaming. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 23(6), 877–901. doi:10.1017/S0140525X00004015
- Nielsen, T., & Levin, R. (2007). Nightmares: A new neurocognitive model. Sleep Medicine Reviews, 11(4), 295–310. doi:10.1016/j.smrv.2007.03.004
- Jung, C. G. (Ed.) (1964). Man and His Symbols. Aldus Books.